Monthly Guided Reflection & Intention: December Edition VOL. 1
If you’re reading this now on December 11th, it’s my birthday. And you’re officially invited. I’m most likely somewhere enjoying garlic edamame, a delightful rainbow roll, and a slice of my heart-shaped strawberry shortcake, all while setting annual intentions. But for now, let's focus on the celebration you’re invited to.
You are at a digital celebration event, where the only rule is to show up as the Queen you are. To embrace authenticity, you must be honest, soft, and grant permission to say, ‘I’m showing up for my own life’.
Given the dress code is" dress to impress, I know you’ve got this. If anyone knows how to serve presence, it’s you.
This month, and carrying into January, we’re celebrating life as the ultimate party. I’ve definitely RSVPed to way too many things that didn’t spark joy. At the time, I thought saying “yes” was being polite, fulfilling a duty, or proving ambition.
But here’s the truth: every RSVP is a signature on your energy ledger. Each yes you give that doesn’t align with your core truth drains your presence, focus, and calm. It’s not time that you’re giving, it’s a piece of your attention, your spark.
Making a deliberate decision to live intentionally is like planning the most expensive extravaganza. The décor—the vibes, the habits, the routines—does it make you feel alive, inspired, abundant?
Your December Journal Prompt
Who will get a seat at your 2026 dinner party table? Which habits, relationships, and experiences make the guest list? And which don’t? Being selective isn’t selfish—it’s sacred. This is your life. Curate it with intention.
Because, to keep it real, Queens, sometimes we get so caught up overachieving, checking boxes, and chasing the next milestone that we forget to enjoy the party that is our life right now. This is where the reverse gap comes in: instead of waiting to be happy when something “massive” happens, we honor what we’ve already created in the moment. Your growth, your wins, your presence, and how you engage with your loved ones are all beautiful reflections and decorations, the music, and the sparkling lights of your current celebration.
Who will get a seat at your 2026 dinner party table? Which habits, relationships, and experiences make the guest list? And which don’t? Being selective isn’t selfish—it’s sacred. This is your life. Curate it with intention.
Before we jump ahead to next year, we’ll reflect on everything we’ve lived, learned, and celebrated. This is the planning part of the party. Make sure you grab your intention-setting notebook for this upcoming month. We’ll set intentions, curate our energy, and design a life that feels like a luxurious, unstoppable, unforgettable celebration.
So Queens, light your candle, pour your glass, put on that outfit that makes you feel unstoppable, and let’s toast to softness, power, sacred boundaries, and abundance. Your celebration starts now, and trust, it’s going to be legendary. 2026, step into your shine because no one can authorize your brilliance but you.
